Desperate help! What am I classified as? How can I tell my parents?

I'm an 18 year old guy. My mind doesn't feel feminine or masculine, but I'm attracted to both genders. However, I want to dress both gender(feminine and masculine). I'm very sensitive and delicate. I want to look female and male at the same time.

I see myself like this...

Maintain a somewhat masculine hairstyle, short bob/shag hairstyle, blonde. Pierce both ears, feminine diamond studs.

Wear somewhat masculine or feminine glasses. Either one.

Shape and thin eyebrows, feminine arches. Get Nair and make body hairless(except for pubes hair, brows and hair on head). Get a men's pedicure and manicure(if there is such one). Wear mens and women's tops and t-shirts, tight-fitting absolutely. Unisex, if you will. Wear men's boxers. Wear masculine jeans and pants, but wear feminine jeans, pants and capris too. I'd like to wear somewhat feminine boots and masculine flipflops.

Just not overly-feminine, you know?

The problem is, how do I tell my parents and get them to help me do this?

Desperate help! What am I classified as? How can I tell my parents?

Don't worry about what you're classified as. They come up with different classifications everyday; know why? Because there aren't enough classifications for everybody, and there never will be. Everyone as themselves are different and such labels don't matter.

But, if you're just wondering or really want to know, you could possibly be bisexual or pansexual, a person who feels they don't identify with neither male or female, or a person who identifys themself as both.

I have lots of friends who don't consider themself male or female, and if a person asks them, they respond depending on their mood or what they feel like today. I think it really just depends on how you feel as a person and what feels most right to you. Maybe even nothing feels right. If not, that's perfectly okay.

I'm not sure how you could tell your parents. Are they open to such things, or are they very narrow-minded? If they're the first, then it should be no problem, just tell them slowly or something. Do whatever feels right to you.

If they're the latter, then, well... Maybe you could get a friend by your side to help you with it instead? Or get a friend to tell them for you, or have a friend there with you when you tell them? Some kind of support beside you just in case they react negatively.

Desperate help! What am I classified as? How can I tell my parents?

If you are 18 then why do you need your parents to help you with your appearance?

Desperate help! What am I classified as? How can I tell my parents?

Sounds like you are a complete induvidual and should be proud. Call it androginous/bisexual. Tell your parents you choose to pursue what comes naturally to you.

Desperate help! What am I classified as? How can I tell my parents?

Classified? I dont know. You are you, you are a unique individual and you can be what you want to be. Is there any buses that you can take? maybe you can get a job somewhere that you see yourself working. Many retailers offer great discounts to there employees! I think that you should start your "makeover" by having financial freedom and getting a job that will let you buy all those things you need instead of going straight to your parents. I dont think they'll understand you! just try it on your own first!

Desperate help! What am I classified as? How can I tell my parents?

your old man is going to blow a gasket, you know..........

Desperate help! What am I classified as? How can I tell my parents?

you would be classified as a transvestite.

how to tell mom and dad ,

i don't know.

Desperate help! What am I classified as? How can I tell my parents?

You might identify as androgynous or genderqueer (gender-wise) and or pansexual / omnisexual orientation wise. Or, you might just say "I don't like labels" and let that be the end of it if you feel these still don't apply to you. I don't really have any tips on coming out, especially with gender issues because I've never had to do that. :-/ Good luck though.