Why do girls choose older guys?

at the place i work, its a big company, we had a college inter come work for a us. her name was Melissa, she was 21, very very hot, very pretty girl. she had longer blond hair, just beyond her shoulders %26amp; the bottom lengths of her hair were dark. like not a real blond, but lets part of her real hair color show on the bottom. all of the guys wanted her. there was an older guy around 50 or so named jerry that is a womanizer(also known as the kidney stone guy) cause someone earlier this year heard him scream from the stone he passed in men's room! he was married %26amp; had older kids. why would a hot young girl like that go for a guy like that? u wouldnt think a girl like that would like a guy that age w/ a beard %26amp; stuff. i know she is pregnant, even though shes back at school now. another guy said, she would have more fun w/ him then w/ jerry, but she must have had fun with him right, i mean she's having a baby with him? i dont get how these things work, not fair, not fair at all! LOL!

Why do girls choose older guys?

I think their are a lot of possibilities for this answer. Older guys have more experience with life and sex. They know what they want out of life. And they are pretty much secure financially. I personally couldn't be with someone more than 5 years older than me. Also a lot of the younger guys just want to play games and don't know what or who they really want. Everybody has different needs and wants.

Why do girls choose older guys?

they are usually more mature and therefore stable.

Why do girls choose older guys?

I have no idea... thats sick in my book... Maybe he bought her a car, lots of golddiggers out there.

Why do girls choose older guys?

well first of all she's blond! haha jk! but most of the time women like older men because they are more mature than the men that are their own age.

Why do girls choose older guys?

girls here older they assume they're further in there life and instead of waitin for someone of there age to mature or get things settled they go onto a premade version who's already suppose to have gotten the car, the house, the money and the filled out maturity level.. u don gotta be 50 to have all tht stuff tho... plus..............eww......

Why do girls choose older guys?

men mature slower than females so when a female has the mental capacity of 30 at the age of 20 a male doesn't get to 30 mentally until 40 so to say.

it kinda makes since i guess but i don't know. i mean i'm 21 and my ex i'm working things out with cuz we broke up over something really stupid that someone else said is 8 years older than me. i mean not double my age or anything but he has kids and an ex wife and all that jazz. i just fell in love with him the moment i got a minute alone with him. he's the most perfect thing in the world and it's not because of his age. i dunno love is strange i guess. or money speaks louder for this girl, not me though.

Why do girls choose older guys?

more mature..

immature guys sometimes is not serious..

older guy know how to treat us right..

Why do girls choose older guys?

There are probably a few different explanations for her behavior:

1. Older guys tend be a lot cooler, smarter, funnier %26amp; nicer, etc. They just are. Maybe it's their stability and their lack of caring what other people think about them? There's just something about older guys that's extremely attractive.

2. She feels sorry for him, and he's nice, so she wants to get with him.

3. He's rich and she's a golddigger.

4. She knows him from somewhere else-history behind this?

5. She wants you younger guys to feel really jealous and want her even more.

6. She didn't have a very good father growing up and wants a father figure who's as cool as he is.

7. This is some huge misunderstanding. They aren't actually together.

Any of these possibilities seem reasonable?

Why do girls choose older guys?

First, I have to question if she seriously got together with him. What is your source? Is it Jerry?

Secondly, a lot of young women are attracted to the maturity and experience of an older man (although Jerry doesn't sound mature if he's married and still womanizing). But an age difference that big (30 years) often indicates that there might be some unresolved "father" issues. If he is paying her a lot of attention - she might like it because it is filling a need that she has. Just because she's hot, doesn't mean that doesn't have issues or problems that do not need addressing.

Why do girls choose older guys?

Reminds her of her father, who was absent or a molester. It's not rocket science, it's psychology.