Thursday, June 17, 2010

Why do my sister keep getting her heart broken?

There is three girls. Two of us is married. My sister is the essense of what a woman is and should be. She is successful in her own right. She owns her home. No children. In the looks department, she is simply gorgeous. Long curly, ebony hair, grey eyes, honey skin. She is small but shaped like an hour glass. She is a "down" sista. She does not look at a man's earnings too much, she always says that she has money and do not need a man's money. I think that may be part of the problem. My other sister and myself both married men that at least earned what we did or more. It makes things less complicated. I know that sounded snobby. Her relationships last no more than 6mos. She wants the happily ever after. What advice would you give to her?



Why do my sister keep getting her heart broken?

I think she may be a little too independent. Of course I love it when women don't sit around and expect for a man to pay for everything they want. But it seems that she may be the type that when a guy really wants to pay for her, or do nice things, she won't accept it. I agree with what another person said, she should really stop looking, and let the man come to her. The way you describe her, she reminds me of Joan Clayton on the show Girlfriends. She so wants to have a lasting relationship, but maybe at times she comes on too strong, or fast forwards the relationship way too soon. Hopefully someday soon she will find a man that doesn't feel threatened by her strength, and independence.



Why do my sister keep getting her heart broken?

FEEL YOU MY SISTER IS THE AME AND MEN ARE JUST NOT INTO THAT!! THOSES TYPES OF WOMEN DONT NEED A MEN SO WHY SHOULD THEY BE THERE FOR??



ANYWAYS JUST LET HER BE ONE DAY SHE WILL MEET SOMEONE WHO WILL MAKE HER CHANGE AND REALIZE THAT SHE PUTS TOO MANY BARRIERS EVEN IF SHE DONT MEAN TO



Why do my sister keep getting her heart broken?

none sounds like a great girls probably just needs to find the right guy



Why do my sister keep getting her heart broken?

Well, coming from a guy, I'd say look for a guy like me. I'm not trying to get at your sister, okay? Well, try to find that "Urban Renaissance Man" that'll be just enough of everything. Try waiting it out so instead of finding the man, let him find her. That's how I was raised. I hope that helped, if only a little.



Why do my sister keep getting her heart broken?

If she is dating guys in the same box then it is time for her to get out of the box. She needs to go for guys that are just as intellegent as she is and I don't think money should be an issue.



Why do my sister keep getting her heart broken?

Go for a better quality of men, not rich per say but a man who is secure with himself and that is not as shallow as the ones she seems to be going after.



Why do my sister keep getting her heart broken?

Any guy dating a gorgeous girl is gonna do his best to impress her, which includes offering to pay for everything. Your sis probably doesn't let em. I think she may make them feel as if their money is no good. But that's just me, wish her the best!



Why do my sister keep getting her heart broken?

Some ladies just gotta kiss alot of frogs to meet their prince charming...



Why do my sister keep getting her heart broken?

Because she is trying too hard. Men can tell when a woman is man hunting, and they will lie to her just to get what they want and then dump her. She need to just stop looking. No I didn't say lower her standards, just stop looking. Let the men find her and they will, a woman with a job and a home is a good catch. But a woman with a job and a good home, and man hunting, she's a target.



Why do my sister keep getting her heart broken?

She sounds like the kind of women that alot of men are intimidated by. So, I think you are right. A man that earns close to what she does or more would better suit her. Because even though men will deny it, it hurts their ego if their girl makes more money then them unless they are easily whooped. I would say she needs to heighten her standards. LOL. Never thought I would say something like that.



Why do my sister keep getting her heart broken?

Maybe if your sister would stop messing around with black men then she would not get her heart broken.

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